3M to 30

Its just 3 months to my turning 30. Finally I can talk the language of Sex and the City...condemning every silly action of a "twenty something" girl.And also of your old enough BoyFriend when they fall for such girls! Ya right..they are not even "Women"! Womanhood as I see it...does not come with age...well may be a little bit...but actually through the experiences of life that comes with the age as well ;apart from the circumstances that you go through in due course.

As I dangle in this critical time frame....I look back only to find that I was naive and my actions were mostly silly. Well I thought my decisions or choices were correct at those times...so no worries...There has been quite a few changes in me over the last few years...May be I have grown wiser (or not)...may be I have learnt from my mistakes (again may be not...we'll see if I don't repeat them ...obviously).

I had this huge misconception about me being a tom boy...Trust me...I am so not...I am a woman in true sense of terms...I like what every woman likes...I hate what every woman hates...I am so amazed at my self revelation...can't really describe the feeling...

There is an ad about The Complete Man...from Raymond...I wonder will they ever dare a "Complete Woman"? probably not...A woman in general opinion is not probably complete without a family of her own...essentially a spouse and children...I remember Susmita Sen being asked the question "what is the essence of a woman?" in her final round of Miss Universe Contest back in 1994. I don't recall her answer now though it must have been a great one or else she would not have won the title. I might google it to find out...but I think I have now come to understand...the real essence and the substance of a woman lies in the way she feels..strong/weak ; courageous/frightened; extrovert/introvert; shy/bold...in every aspect of life. Some can make it to the brighter side some cannot. Its not about comparing with Men at all...here in comes the insights from "Men are from Mars,Women are from Venus"...

Its the thought process that counts and makes all the difference...As you grow old (and trust me twenty something girls think and say out loud..."OMG! you are 30 ...you dont look so old!" or "30s are so mummy types"-well its not completely their fault as they have seen young mothers of that age) you realize a lot of things that you weren't consciously aware of in your twenties.One great point is that you might have all the energy to do what you want but you don't have MONEY in your twenties. Now you might be a little shy on energy part...but...YOU FINALLY HAVE MONEY. And it makes sense if you are still single!!! and bear no responsibilities...you can do anything you want (or wanted earlier).

I am so looking forward to my thirties. The last decade has been the worst time of my life till date...I will make it all happen in my thirties...Life here I come...and "twenty something girls " BEWARE!

30 ROCKS!!!